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The Three Questions to Ask if you Want to Get to Know Someone Better
Getting to know someone can take years. You will have to hang out with someone many times before determining if you get along well. Whether it is dating or a new friendship, it’s easier for both parties the quicker you know if it’s going to “work out.” And it should take some time. This is essentially the factor of letting someone new into your life. But I want to share the three questions I ask everyone I meet that unlock their subconscious and really let me get to know who they are and how they perceive the world right off the bat.
Yes, I did steal these from Teal Swan & Sigmund Freud.
What’s your favorite color and three deep reasons/words as to why?
This question sometimes stuns people because it makes them sometimes think for the first time about why they really like “this” color the most. It’s a great way to start off the conversation and almost forces them to engage and focus on you. The reasons for their favorite color are actually how they view themselves and their own personality.
What’s your favorite animal and three deep reasons/words as to why?
This one is a great one to build a smaller conversation off of. You can’t argue or say anything about someone’s favorite color. But if they like a similar animal as you or…
